[you have received a letter from your english pen-friend julia who writes i'm writing to you because it's become a habit. i spend a lot of time chatting on internet where i can share my thoughts and ideas with unknown people but i have a great problem in my real life. гт too shy and it's very difficult for me to start the conversation first or go dating with a boy. how can i overcome it? what do you think it would better to do if you were me? maybe, should / go to see a psychologist?