Family Conflicts Every family has problems because there are no ideal relationships. Conflicts usually appear between parents and their teenage offsprings. Wise parents try to decide such problems without insulting or pressurizing children. Teenagers are rather sensitive. They are going through a difficult period, when they have to choose future occupation, friends, interests. It’s also the time of first love and tears. So, parents should understand this and try to help them instead of useless moralizing. One of the most difficult problems among adults and youngsters is the struggle for independence. At some point children realize that they want to be independent, they don’t need help or advice from parents. They want to be left alone and to decide for themselves. That’s when family conflicts start. The only solution is to hear each other and to talk about it. Unfortunately, teens don’t understand that some things or situations can be dangerous and can have unwanted effects. This is the time when many youngsters try alcohol, cigarettes or drugs, not knowing that this one try can ruin all their life. They don’t understand that parents have gone through this and know how behave in certain situation. Meanwhile, adults should understand that their children are no longer kindergarten kids. They have grown and they need special attention. Family conflict is not a disaster. It can be solved if treated sensibly. There are many family therapists and psychologists nowadays, who help to solve such problems. The main condition is not to let it become too deep.
7. Прочитайте диалоги. Что делают люди, которые общаются друг с другом делать?Диалог 1Чем ты занимаешься?Я Приемной. А как насчет вас?Я студент. И что ты делаешь?У меня нет работы на данный момент. Я безработный.Диалог 2.Джон: Где вы работаете сейчас?Аня: Третий глаз дизайна компании.Джон: Ах, да. Э-э, что вы делаете?Аня: Я секретарь в бухгалтерии.Джон: Вы говорите языки?Аня: Да, я делаю. Я говорю на испанском. Я хожу в Испании или Латинской Америке каждый год.Джон: Вы учитесь в свободное время?Аня: Нет, у меня нет.Джон: Что вы делаете в свободное время?Аня: В смотрят телевизор вечером 1 или слушать музыку. В выходные л увидеть своих друзей.Джон: Почему вы хотите, чтобы ваша работа?Аня: Поскольку Видение Design хорошая компания, и это рядом с моим домом.
Every family has problems because there are no ideal relationships. Conflicts usually appear between parents and their teenage offsprings. Wise parents try to decide such problems without insulting or pressurizing children. Teenagers are rather sensitive. They are going through a difficult period, when they have to choose future occupation, friends, interests. It’s also the time of first love and tears. So, parents should understand this and try to help them instead of useless moralizing. One of the most difficult problems among adults and youngsters is the struggle for independence. At some point children realize that they want to be independent, they don’t need help or advice from parents. They want to be left alone and to decide for themselves. That’s when family conflicts start. The only solution is to hear each other and to talk about it. Unfortunately, teens don’t understand that some things or situations can be dangerous and can have unwanted effects. This is the time when many youngsters try alcohol, cigarettes or drugs, not knowing that this one try can ruin all their life. They don’t understand that parents have gone through this and know how behave in certain situation. Meanwhile, adults should understand that their children are no longer kindergarten kids. They have grown and they need special attention. Family conflict is not a disaster. It can be solved if treated sensibly. There are many family therapists and psychologists nowadays, who help to solve such problems. The main condition is not to let it become too deep.