Все родители сталкиваются с ситуациями, когда ни конфронтации, ни изменения в окружающей обстановке не изменить поведение ребенка. Он продолжает вести себя в противоречии интересам родителя. Во взаимоотношениях между родителями и детьми такие ситуации неизбежны, поскольку ребенку «необходимо» вести себя определенным образом, даже если ему дали понять, что его поведение противоречит интересам родителя.Дочь не желает уступить чувствам своих родителей и отказаться от намеченной поездки с группой друзей на море. Она во что бы то ни стало хочет ехать, хотя и слышит насколько это неприемлемо для ее родителей.Такие конфликты между интересами родителя и интересами ребенка часто происходят в каждой семье. Конфликт начинается с несущественных различий во мнениях и перерастает в настоящее сражение. Эта проблема во взаимоотношениях не принадлежит исключительно ребенку или родителю. В нее вовлечены оба, так как задеты интересы той и другой стороны.All parents are faced with situations where no confrontation, no changes in the environment are not able to change the behavior of the child. He continues to behave contrary to the interests of the parent. In the relationship between parents and children, such situations are inevitable, because the child was "necessary" to behave in a certain way, even if he was given to understand that his behavior is contrary to the interests of the parent. The daughter does not want to give up the feelings of their parents and to abandon the planned trip with a group of friends at sea. It all means at any cost wants to go, though, and hear how it is not acceptable to her parents. Such conflicts between the interests of the parent and the interests of the child often occur in every family. The conflict begins with a slight difference of opinion, and develops into a real battle. The problem in the relationship does not belong exclusively to a child or parent. It involved, both as hurt the interests of both sides.
The daughter does not want to give up the feelings of their parents and to abandon the planned trip with a group of friends at sea. It all means at any cost wants to go, though, and hear how it is not acceptable to her parents.
Such conflicts between the interests of the parent and the interests of the child often occur in every family. The conflict begins with a slight difference of opinion, and develops into a real battle. The problem in the relationship does not belong exclusively to a child or parent. It involved, both as hurt the interests of both sides.