Нужны аргументы "за" и "против" для эссе на тему "you shouldn't rely on your friends and family in choosing a career."

За:
-friends can give good
-parents are wiser and, therefore, their decision may be right
-parents are your foremost authority in the life and you entrust this selection them
против:
-parents' council can be wrong, and then you will not like your profession
-friends stupidity of you can make a joke and advise you the wrong type of activity
-it is a difficult choice, and you can only rely on yourself